fix(dependencies): address PR review findings

- Read the MetalLB speaker tag check from the managed host with slurp
  instead of a controller-side file lookup, and match the full image
  reference
- Restore the tigera-operator namespace on the Calico operator Deployment
  wait while keeping the managed CRD waits cluster-scoped
- Make Molecule verify inputs durable and scenario-specific via a
  per-scenario verify-vars.yml, driven by explicit verify_cni/verify_lb
  values instead of non-persisted converge facts
- Rename the kube-vip multi-peer BGP env var from bgppeers to bgp_peers
  and vip_cidr to vip_subnet so v1.2.2 actually reads them
- Map the legacy Cilium routed mode to tunnel and stop passing the alias
  directly to the chart
- Use return-code based failed_when on apply and preflight commands so
  non-error failures are no longer treated as success
- Clarify the sequential K3s upgrade path and backups in the README
- Add kube-vip and MetalLB regression tests and a Cilium mode mapping unit

.pre-commit-config.yaml

@@ -70,3 +70,17 @@ repos:
           - Jinja2>=3.1
         pass_filenames: false
         files: ^roles/k3s_server_post/templates/cilium\.crs\.j2$|^\.github/scripts/test-cilium-bgp-manifest\.py$
+      - id: kube-vip-manifest-test
+        name: kube-vip manifest test
+        entry: python3 .github/scripts/test-kube-vip-manifest.py
+        language: python
+        additional_dependencies:
+          - Jinja2>=3.1
+        pass_filenames: false
+        files: ^roles/k3s_server/templates/vip\.yaml\.j2$|^\.github/scripts/test-kube-vip-manifest\.py$
+      - id: metallb-remote-read-test
+        name: MetalLB remote read test
+        entry: .github/scripts/test-metallb-remote-read.sh
+        language: system
+        pass_filenames: false
+        files: ^roles/k3s_server/tasks/metallb\.yml$|^\.github/scripts/test-metallb-remote-read\.sh$